To Have & To Hold
Because when Christ is the foundation, love doesn’t just endure—it flourishes.
Why We Exist
In a world where many marriages are barely holding on, we believe there’s a better way—God's way.
To Have and To Hold Marriage Ministry was born from real experience and a deep burden: to see marriages healed, strengthened, and restored through the power of God’s Word and authentic, Spirit-led community.
Marriages That Last
We know it's not always a lack of love or effort that causes marriages to struggle—but often a lack of support, guidance, and the tools to apply biblical truth to real-life challenges.
That’s why we exist: to walk with couples beyond the wedding vows and into the beautiful, sometimes messy, always meaningful work of building a Christ-centered covenant that lasts.
““Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.””
Our Story
"We came close to the edge—but God pulled us back. And now, we pour from what He’s restored."
— Founders
Like so many, we faced storms that shook our foundation. We know what it feels like to fight for your marriage through tears, prayer, and the grace of God.
But we also know what restoration looks like when Jesus is at the center and others are walking with you in faith.
We launched To Have and To Hold for couples just like us. Those who feel alone. Those hungry for something real. Those ready to rebuild or take their love deeper than ever before.
This isn’t just a ministry. It’s a movement—one that believes every marriage can be redeemed, renewed, and made whole.
Our Vision
To see marriages flourish—rooted in biblical truth, built on intentional love, and lived with purpose and joy.
Our Mission
We exist to walk with couples—married, engaged, or preparing for covenant—by providing Christ-centered teaching, practical tools, and a nurturing community where love grows and hope is restored.
What You’ll Find Here
Marriage Workshops & Events
Spirit-led, practical gatherings that help couples explore God's purpose, communicate better, and grow in love.Real Community
Married couples supporting one another—through honest conversations, shared experiences, and prayer.Faith-Based Tools
Biblical resources that empower couples to apply God’s Word in real, everyday situations.
Testimonial
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Ready to pour into your marriage?
Whether you’re newly engaged, years into marriage, or rebuilding from the ground up—this is a place for you. You don’t have to walk this road alone.
We’re here to listen, to pray, to walk with you—because we believe in what God can do when two hearts surrender to Him.
There’s hope. There’s help. And there’s a family waiting to welcome you in.